The Emotionally Unavailable Partner/Date Part Deux : 7 More Signs 3

The Emotionally Unavailable Partner/Date Part Deux : 7 More Signs
By Javinne J. McCoy It is unbelievable and extraordinary the things EUPs will say to whomever they are involved with. Some of the statements and comments they make to the people they are dating make it quite obvious that they are emotionally unavailable, shady, and shifty as Frick! However some statements are on the subtle ...

Some Guys Are Simply Jerks: It’s Not Always Your Fault! 5

Some Guys Are Simply Jerks: It’s Not Always Your Fault!
By Javinne J. McCoy Update: Although I don’t post as frequently as I would like to or as I use to, I am never short of day-to-day insights about emotionally unavailable folk that swirl around in my head. Sometimes there is just not enough time to get them all down (besides, it being tough to ...

The Love Antics 2016 New Year’s Relationship Resolution List 4

The Love Antics 2016 New Year’s Relationship Resolution List
    It’s been awhile since the last post. If you are wondering if I am still here, I am still here. However, I realize it is becoming increasing difficult to balance writing Blog posts and my career as a full-time Substance Use Counselor. Side note: Notice how I never disclose a great deal about ...

The Pity Pot of Pain (Shit But Then Flush Rather Quickly) Part 3

The Pity Pot of Pain (Shit But Then Flush Rather Quickly) Part 3
By Javinne J. McCoy For Part 2 Click Here. If you want to get off the Pity Pot of your emotional pain, the first step entails being able to identify the symptoms of your pain. Ask yourself “How does my emotional pain manifest itself in my life?” In order to heal, you must know what ...

The Pity Pot of Pain (Shit But Then Flush Rather Quickly) Part 2 1

The Pity Pot of Pain (Shit But Then Flush Rather Quickly) Part 2
By Javinne J. McCoy My Pain “Aha Moment” Pain sucks at first. Often you don’t get to see the immediate benefit of  your emotional war wounds and healing your pain-growth and maturity (if you learn from it). About 3 years ago, I remember sitting in my former therapist’s office one evening (the one whom I ...