Letting go! Sometimes You Gotta Let Go! Song of the Day Sunday (Reflections) 2

Letting go! Sometimes You Gotta Let Go! Song of the Day Sunday (Reflections)
  Sometimes letting go is the only way to grow! -By Javinne J. McCoy Before we get into this post on letting go , I just want to provide background on Song of the day Sunday (Reflections). In addition to Facts of Life Friday posts, another new addition to the LA Blog will be Song ...

When Someone Hurts You, Think Expand! Not Retract! (Facts of Life Friday) 4

When Someone Hurts You, Think Expand! Not Retract! (Facts of Life Friday)
By Javinne J. McCoy When someone hurts you, it hurts. It’s supposed to, because they hurt us, they have caused us pain. When someone with whom we desire a relationship rejects us, withdraws from us, and withholds love from us, after we have let our guard down, and shared our vulnerabilities (albeit misguidedly with an ...

10 thoughts on Loving You, Self-Esteem, and Value 4

10 thoughts on Loving You, Self-Esteem, and Value
By Javinne J. McCoy When we keep cycling on the unavailable, unhealthy, and painful relationship hamster wheel, it’s all too common to think we are under a cosmic curse or merely having a spell of bad luck.  We may feel powerless. We may begin to think that the universe is conspiring against us, as if ...

What Should I Do? They Pulled Away After Saying “I am Falling in Love” 8

What Should I Do? They Pulled Away After Saying “I am Falling in Love”
By Javinne J. McCoy If I had a penny for every time I’ve heard (or experienced) the unrequited love stories and the Love Antics of emotionally unavailable​ folk and commitment phobic types who profess their love,  then pull away or push the object of their ‘love’ away,  I wouldn’t be rich,  but I sure would ...

Love Games: False Confessions of Love Part 2 2

Love Games: False Confessions of Love Part 2
By Javinne J. McCoy For Part 1: Click Here Why Would  They Say “I Love You or I am Falling in Love” only to Pull Away, Withdraw  and Withhold Love? 1. The for The Moment Mentality The EUPS’ Hippocampus part of the brain is SHUT DOWN. EUPs are very short-term thinkers. They act impulsively FOR ...