Change Your Patterns, Be Tested, Have The Experience, and Grow (Facts of Life Friday) 5

Change Your Patterns, Be Tested, Have The Experience, and Grow (Facts of Life Friday)
By Javinne J. McCoy I’m a bit late (Friday night) with Facts of life Friday, but here is a nite cap post. The LA Blog is about change-changing our relationship with ourselves, and then changing the kind of relationships we are attracted to and choose (emotionally unavailable vs. emotionally available). Change is arguably one of ...

14 Reasons Loving You is Better Than Not Loving You: Loveantics Valentine’s Day Reflections for Singles

14 Reasons Loving You is Better Than Not Loving You: Loveantics Valentine’s Day Reflections for Singles
By Javinne J. McCoy Back in 2014, I posted a post The Loveantics’ Valentine’s Day Guide for Singles: 10 Love Notes. In short, it was basically a reality checker for singles to ward off that thing called The Relationship Leper Mentality. We are so groomed to validate us from the love “out there”, instead of ...

Getting Over an Ex is Being Able to Say “I Got Over You” and Then, Living Like It (Song of The Day Sunday Reflections)

Getting Over an Ex is Being Able to Say “I Got Over You” and Then, Living Like It (Song of The Day Sunday Reflections)
By Javinne J. McCoy Getting over an Ex is arguably one of the most popular relationship search terms on Google (Heck, I am even trying to rank for it as a long-tail keyword in this post. Chuckle. Nuff’ said). This Song of the Day Sunday (Reflections) will cover getting over an Ex, and feature reflections ...

Ending an Unhealthy Relationship with Them, Is The Beginning of a Healthy One With You (Facts of Life Friday) 3

Ending an Unhealthy Relationship with Them, Is The Beginning of a Healthy One With You (Facts of Life Friday)
  By Javinne J. McCoy This Facts of Life Friday post is all about how we can shift our perceptions when ending an unhealthy relationship with someone, move away from reactivation (allowing The Same Person Different Package to keep reappearing in our lives or returning to an Ex), avoid regression (attempting to heal old wounds ...

Chronic Avoiders: Let’s Pretend It Didn’t Happen When It Did 8

Chronic Avoiders: Let’s Pretend It Didn’t Happen When It Did
 By Javinne J. McCoy Throughout my former “career” in dealing with EUPs, Unavailables, Jerks, Narcs (Narcissists), in friendship context or romantic paring context, I have been absolutely fascinated by the level of avoidance, and downright denial of reality, these folk roll on through life with. If you’re a person that likes to deal in reality, ...