Change Your Patterns, Be Tested, Have The Experience, and Grow (Facts of Life Friday) 5

Change Your Patterns, Be Tested, Have The Experience, and Grow (Facts of Life Friday)
By Javinne J. McCoy I’m a bit late (Friday night) with Facts of life Friday, but here is a nite cap post. The LA Blog is about change-changing our relationship with ourselves, and then changing the kind of relationships we are attracted to and choose (emotionally unavailable vs. emotionally available). Change is arguably one of ...

The EUP an Angel in Disguise: Passing Your Spiritual Test (Understanding Reactivation, Regression, Revelation, Reformation, and Renewal) Part 1 7

The EUP an Angel in Disguise: Passing Your Spiritual Test  (Understanding Reactivation, Regression, Revelation, Reformation, and Renewal) Part 1
By Javinne J. McCoy Alert! This is going to be a long series so strap on in! I have been reviewing past articles on the LA Blog as I prepare to hire an editor to fine-tune my content. When I first started the LA Blog, the flavor of a lot of my posts on EUPs ...

To Be In a Relationship is a Choice: It’s Okay to Outgrow Certain People and Situations 4

To Be In a Relationship is a Choice: It’s Okay to Outgrow Certain People and Situations
By Javinne J. McCoy Over the last couple of weeks, it has occurred to me, ever so clearly, that being in any type of relationship is a choice. Friendship, romance, or whatever; you choose with whom you want to engage with at any given season in your life. With that said, you can also choose ...

5 Love and Relationship Myths: The Real Truth 8

5 Love and Relationship Myths: The Real Truth
By Javinne J. McCoy Every Wednesday night I have tennis lessons, at a Tennis Center near me, from 8-9:30pm with a group of pretty darn cool adults. This past Wednesday night, I engaged in some interesting conversation with one of my other tennis playmates (It is a pretty large group). Anyway we began to talk ...

If You Need Them to Be Better, You’re Acknowledging That They Ain’t All That! 14

If You Need Them to Be Better, You're Acknowledging That They Ain’t All That!
By Javinne J. McCoy There are a handful of people whom I am acquainted that are simultaneously experiencing the power of the “Unhealthy Relationship Breakup Gods” (myself included). Here is the run down: Unhealthy Relationship Exhibit A: One person has had to endure heartbreak by the hand of a narcissistic husband who stepped out of ...