Unconditional Love is Sometimes Saying To Yourself “But, It’s Gonna Be Alright” (Facts of Life)

Unconditional Love is Sometimes Saying To Yourself “But, It’s Gonna Be Alright” (Facts of Life)
By Javinne J. McCoy It’s time for another Facts of Life post. If I were to extract the life themes that have presented themselves in my personal journey within the past 6 months, they would go something like this: a) being tested by reactivations of old feelings, relationship patterns and people b) being challenged to ...

Take Folk Off The People Pedestals: They Don’t Have That Much Power Over You. Really, They Don’t! (Facts of Life Friday) 1

Take Folk Off The People Pedestals: They Don’t Have That Much Power Over You. Really, They Don’t! (Facts of Life Friday)
By Javinne J. McCoy Rant Switch ON! The very folk who you think have the power to make or break your unhappiness,  all while treating you like poo from the bottom of their shoes, will lose their power and deflate, when you tap into your own personal power.   It’s at this point you can ...

Relationship Burnout: Stop Carrying The Burden of Peopleweights. Save The Weightlifting for New York Sports Club (Facts of Life) 3

Relationship Burnout: Stop Carrying The Burden of Peopleweights. Save The Weightlifting for New York Sports Club (Facts of Life)
By Javinne J. McCoy Update: Got caught up this week. So this is a Facts of Life Friday, the Saturday Edition. Nonetheless I think it appropriate for some food for thought and a weekend reality checker.  Sidenote: This post is not for the emotionally unavailable person who is not doing enough or barely doing anything ...

Change Your Patterns, Be Tested, Have The Experience, and Grow (Facts of Life Friday) 5

Change Your Patterns, Be Tested, Have The Experience, and Grow (Facts of Life Friday)
By Javinne J. McCoy I’m a bit late (Friday night) with Facts of life Friday, but here is a nite cap post. The LA Blog is about change-changing our relationship with ourselves, and then changing the kind of relationships we are attracted to and choose (emotionally unavailable vs. emotionally available). Change is arguably one of ...

Ending an Unhealthy Relationship with Them, Is The Beginning of a Healthy One With You (Facts of Life Friday) 3

Ending an Unhealthy Relationship with Them, Is The Beginning of a Healthy One With You (Facts of Life Friday)
  By Javinne J. McCoy This Facts of Life Friday post is all about how we can shift our perceptions when ending an unhealthy relationship with someone, move away from reactivation (allowing The Same Person Different Package to keep reappearing in our lives or returning to an Ex), avoid regression (attempting to heal old wounds ...