Potential is Just Potential: The Greater the Risk is the Greater the Risk 4

Potential is Just Potential: The Greater the Risk is the Greater the Risk
By Javinne J. McCoy Emotionally unavailable relationship dynamics can be super insidious. In all emotionally unavailable relationships there are familiar features and common themes that pop up like a bad rash. I have gotten emails from readers in Japan who will stumble across the LA Blog via Google , and then I will get an ...

The EUP an Angel in Disguise: Passing Your Spiritual Test (Understanding Regression) Part 3 7

The EUP an Angel in Disguise: Passing Your Spiritual Test  (Understanding Regression) Part 3
By Javinne J. McCoy Side Note: It has been a while since I last posted an article-an understatement. What can I say? Life happens. Anyway, let’s jump right back into where I left off. It’s the New Year. Let’s get It poppin’ on the LA Blog. I am back in business for 2017. Part 3 ...

The EUP an Angel in Disguise: Passing Your Spiritual Test (Understanding Reactivation) Part 2 9

The EUP an Angel in Disguise: Passing Your Spiritual Test  (Understanding Reactivation) Part 2
By Javinne J. McCoy Have you ever wondered why you may seem to have a string of unhealthy relationships with the same person but different package? You know the drill : They do the Hot Pursuit then Withdraw Routine – leaving YOU now to be chasing them (when before you couldn’t get them to stop ...

The Emotionally Unavailable Partner/Date Part Deux : 7 More Signs 3

The Emotionally Unavailable Partner/Date Part Deux : 7 More Signs
By Javinne J. McCoy It is unbelievable and extraordinary the things EUPs will say to whomever they are involved with. Some of the statements and comments they make to the people they are dating make it quite obvious that they are emotionally unavailable, shady, and shifty as Frick! However some statements are on the subtle ...

The Square Peg Round Hole Phenomenon: Change is Nearly Impossible When You Stay In an Unhealthy System Part 2

The Square Peg Round Hole Phenomenon: Change is Nearly Impossible When You Stay In an Unhealthy System Part 2
By Javinne J. McCoy How do you know if a relationship is an incompatible and an unhealthy system? One clue is when you have to FORCE the hell out of something to the point where it drains you of your dignity, compromises your values, and makes you plain unhappy. Remember the task-project scenario in Part ...