Welcome to Loveantics.com- The Relationship Blog. I am Javinne J. McCoy (An acquaintance who reads the blog started to call me “The Other” Love Doctor (without the Doctorate…lol). You can call me that too!) I have a special passion for the topic of relationships, specifically, understanding emotionally unavailable relationships. Special attention is given to relationships with Emotionally Unavailable Partners (the main theme of loveantics.com), and the dynamics surrounding these types of relationships. The anecdotes, insights and experiences I share are compiled from my personal relationship experiences (what I like to refer to as my own “Love Antics”) and those of others. Through years of professional therapy (doing my own “soul-work”), having discussions with friends, family, and acquaintances I have witnessed a pervasive theme: peoples consistent dealings with and attraction to Emotionally Unavailable Relationships/Partners.
I am a self- affirmed 30 year-old gay male who has taken up a long residence in Relationship Shadyville. Until my light bulb moment occurred, my “Relationship Aha Moment”, I couldn’t escape my own unhealthy relationship patterns; let alone address them. Because of my affinity to the rainbow flag, some of the blog content will be geared toward the LGBT community. However, the relationship insights I provide are often applicable across the spectrum of LGBT relationships and “straight” (hetero) relationships. There are of course some relationship issues that directly affect the LGBT community and those may periodically be addressed.
Remember that the main theme of loveantics.com is Emotional Unavailability- partners and pairings which scream you can get “Close but NOT too close!” (intimacy issues at their prime). This relationship epidemic is not partial to sexual preference: It is about matters of the heart. Whether your gay or straight, I am sure you have experienced, and have had your own “Love Antics” (i.e. unhealthy beliefs about relationships, unhealthy love habits/patterns). It is my hope that through sharing my own insights about emotional unavailability, life, love, and relationships; you will become empowered to create and experience more fulfilling healthy love relationships. Cheers to your Lover Within!
Have a topic or a question on emotionally unavailable relationships that you would like addressed on L.A? Please feel free to email your inquiries: firstname.lastname@example.org