Take Folk Off The People Pedestals: They Don’t Have That Much Power Over You. Really, They Don’t! (Facts of Life Friday) 1

Take Folk Off The People Pedestals: They Don’t Have That Much Power Over You. Really, They Don’t! (Facts of Life Friday)
By Javinne J. McCoy Rant Switch ON! The very folk who you think have the power to make or break your unhappiness,  all while treating you like poo from the bottom of their shoes, will lose their power and deflate, when you tap into your own personal power.   It’s at this point you can ...

It’s Okay to Cry and Feel The Feeling. Your Tears Are A Gateway Into Becoming Emotionally Available 3

It’s Okay to Cry and Feel The Feeling.  Your Tears Are A Gateway Into Becoming Emotionally Available
By Javinne J. McCoy Warning! This post is Real T (Truth) and may stir some ISH up.  This is not a twirling about the meadows post, but a truth serum post, with the added benefit of feeling better in the long-term, by getting a bit uncomfortable in the short-term, and exploring the process of becoming ...

Things Not Working Out Doesn’t Always Equal You Did Something Wrong (Facts of Life Friday) 8

Things Not Working Out Doesn’t Always Equal You Did Something Wrong (Facts of Life Friday)
By Javinne J. McCoy If we are to make an honest commitment to get healthy, clear out the the unhealthy relationship cob webs, break old habits and patterns, experience change, stop reactivating childhood wounds, cease regressing and recapping our family of origin drama and pain, and create healthy, we need to reel it in with ...