Blurred Lines: An Object Lesson in Relationship Boundaries from Paula Patton 2

Blurred Lines: An Object Lesson in Relationship Boundaries from Paula Patton
By Javinne J. McCoy I stated it in the last post and I must state it again- this time in bold, “Some relationships have a brief expiration date and some do not”. I cannot reiterate the importance of accepting this reality in your relationships (if you accept this truth you will be able to more ...

To Be In a Relationship is a Choice: It’s Okay to Outgrow Certain People and Situations 4

To Be In a Relationship is a Choice: It’s Okay to Outgrow Certain People and Situations
By Javinne J. McCoy Over the last couple of weeks, it has occurred to me, ever so clearly, that being in any type of relationship is a choice. Friendship, romance, or whatever; you choose with whom you want to engage with at any given season in your life. With that said, you can also choose ...

Reader Question: What Does An Emotionally Unavailable Partner Mean When He/She says…? 4

Reader Question: What Does An Emotionally Unavailable Partner Mean When He/She says…?
By Javinne J. McCoy Recently, I received another request from a Loveantics Blog reader asking me to get to the Real T (Truth) about previous outlandish statements made by his ex-wife, who turned out to be an E.U.P (Emotionally Unavailable Partner or Person) after 16 years of marriage. He literally felt like he did not ...

The Loveantics’ Valentine’s Day Guide for Singles: 10 Love Notes 5

The Loveantics’ Valentine’s Day Guide for Singles: 10 Love Notes
By Javinne J. McCoy With Valentine’s Day approaching, if you are single, separated, or divorced, your “Why Am I Still Single?” antennae might be hypersensitive, and you may find yourself willing to do anything to ease the impact of the negative associations you hold in regards to not being in a relationship.  Careful! This is ...

Case of The Ex: If It Was Unhealthy Why Would You Want Them Back? 5

Case of The Ex: If It Was Unhealthy Why Would You Want Them Back?
By Javinne J. McCoy With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, it is easy to get bitten by the bug of Relationship Reminiscing- recalling, rethinking, replaying and revisiting a relationship that didn’t work out no matter how hard you (or they) tried.  If you gave your all in any relationship (healthy or unhealthy) and the ...