Are You Allergic to “The Good”? Knowing Your Worth Part 2

Are You Allergic to “The Good”? Knowing Your Worth Part 2
By Javinne J. McCoy In Part 1 of “Are You Allergic to “The Good”? Knowing Your Worth”, we explored the concept of worth in relation to life experiences and relationships. Knowing your worth is directly related to having value. When we don’t believe we have worth, we don’t value (or esteem) ourselves, and we will ...

Are You Allergic to “The Good”? Knowing Your Worth Part 1 9

Are You Allergic to “The Good”? Knowing Your Worth Part 1
By Javinne J. McCoy One of the many features of relationships with E.U.P’s is choosing partners who seem to have an uncanny ability to amplify our worst fears. You are afraid of being abandon, and they abandon you. You are afraid of being rejected, and they reject your love. You are afraid of being discarded, ...

Talk is Cheap: It is Action That Speaks 11

Talk is Cheap: It is Action That Speaks
By Javinne J. McCoy If you have been reading the L.A. blog, chances are a desire to take a good look at your life, relationships, and what you need to do to improve these areas, brought you here. Remember the goal of L.A. is to shed light on the seductive trappings of emotionally unavailable situations/relationships ...

Are You Unknowingly Labeling Yourself as a “Relationship Leper”? 8

Are You Unknowingly Labeling Yourself as a
By Javinne J. McCoy I woke up yesterday morning, checked my phone to see what time it was, and then checked my email notifications. Many of you may have noticed that Gmail has a new and nifty inbox feature. The new feature automatically groups your incoming emails into neat categories.  I navigated to the social ...

The Love Antics 2014 New Year’s Relationship Resolutions List 1

The Love Antics 2014 New Year’s Relationship Resolutions List
By Javinne J. McCoy Yesterday afternoon, I sat in my living room, shredded some paper documents, and watched the premier of VH1’s Single Ladies (Season 3). While it is sometimes hard to see through the soap sudsy dialogue and predictable story line (read: the cheesiness of it all), I still find its corny factor a ...