30 Tell-Tale Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship or Dating Situation 11

30 Tell-Tale Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship or Dating Situation
By Javinne J. McCoy 30 Tell-Tale Signs of  an Unhealthy Relationship or Dating Situation As I look back on my shifty track record of relationships, I realize that a lot of the “fall-outs” and failures of my relationships occurred because I had no idea what the hell healthy looked like growing up. I came from ...

The Emotionally Unavailable Partner/Date:10 Signs and Sayings 47

The Emotionally Unavailable Partner/Date:10 Signs and Sayings
By Javinne J. McCoy Relationships with emotionally unavailable partners, lovers, men/woman, can be downright frustrating. Often you leave the relationship or courtship scratching your head in disbelief over the crazy @#$%^&* Love Antics that take place in these unhealthy relationships. For me, it seemed to be that I was the King at jumping heart first ...

Snoop on Your Ex Post- Breakup and Ye Shall Find More Hurt 6

Snoop on Your Ex Post- Breakup and Ye Shall Find More Hurt
By Javinne J. McCoy The last two days have been super emotionally challenging. A Breakup Hell of sorts for me.  I am going on four solid months of going No Contact with my Ex (Mr. SMS-Soul Mate Speech). This Thursday I allowed a trigger to affect me and open up a bag of unhealthy relationship ...

Why Does it Hurt So Bad? Getting to the Root of Your Pain in Life 11

Why Does it Hurt So Bad? Getting to the Root of Your Pain in Life
By Javinne J. McCoy If there is one thing I hate, it is being in pain but lacking the resources or tools to heal it. Sometimes it seems as if all of these hokey sayings that people throw around like “It will get better with time”, “You got to just move on”, “The past is ...

If You Need Them to Be Better, You’re Acknowledging That They Ain’t All That! 12

If You Need Them to Be Better, You're Acknowledging That They Ain’t All That!
By Javinne J. McCoy There are a handful of people whom I am acquainted that are simultaneously experiencing the power of the “Unhealthy Relationship Breakup Gods” (myself included). Here is the run down: Unhealthy Relationship Exhibit A: One person has had to endure heartbreak by the hand of a narcissistic husband who stepped out of ...