Boundary Alert Part 4: Why Did YOU Allow Them to Treat You Badly In the Relationship? 9

Boundary Alert Part 4: Why Did YOU Allow Them to Treat You Badly In the Relationship?
By Javinne J. McCoy Monday night, I watched one of my guilty pleasures- “Basketball Wives L.A.”  Trending in media land right now, is the salty fall out of Evelyn Lozada’s (starring in the show)  relationship with Chad “Ochocinco’. Here is the scoop in short:  Boy with an active laundry list of woman meets girl. Girl ...

Boundary Alert Part 3: “Why Did They Treat Me So Badly in the Relationship?” 2

Boundary Alert Part 3: “Why Did They Treat Me So Badly in the Relationship?”
By Javinne J. McCoy Remember that post on Love Lessons? One way to begin creating boundaries is to identify any unhealthy reappearing pattern in your relationships-your Love Lessons. The lessons shed light into what you really need from a relationship, which in turn aids you in creating boundaries to ensure those needs are met. In ...

Boundary Alert Part 2: “Why Did They Treat Me So Badly in the Relationship? 9

Boundary Alert Part 2: “Why Did They Treat Me So Badly in the Relationship?
By Javinne J. McCoy In Boundary Alert Part 1, I talked about how inducting boundaries into your life will ensure you are treated fairly in your relationships. Remember, not everybody will abide by the V.I.P rules, and thus will not be admitted to your club.  As I look back on my own colorful relationship history, ...

Boundary Alert Part 1: “Why Did They Treat Me So Badly in The Relationship?” 15

Boundary Alert Part 1: “Why Did They Treat Me So Badly in The Relationship?”
By Javinne J. McCoy A few Monday’s ago, I did background work for a Master Card commercial. While on set, I talked to fellow Co-worker. She received a call in the morning from one of her distressed girlfriends (while at work- on set) – The topic of conversation at 8 a.m. in morning? – The ...